It’s a woman’s world finally. Hallelujah!

gossipmongersDispense with your masculinity boys. The female way is the right way!

‘The nurturers’ have all the answers. It’s the best way. It’s the only way. Females are the calmer ones. They’re caring. They concern themselves about humanity, the world, animals and righting the wrongs of the past. They’re healers. Females will balance us and bring us everlasting peace. Women rule because ‘the nurturers’ know all and mothers know best.

It’s true. Men are redundant. Men don’t need to be men anymore. It’s a woman’s world now. Men need to be more like women. They need to dispense with their brutal, narcissistic past ways and make the move towards compassion. The changes are already there. The gap between the male and female identities is closing. Even female’s anxieties are being adopted by the males. That’s proof it’s working perfectly!

Sure, females have anxieties. Let us not forget the black web of insecurities that clog their minds. They have quite a few of them. They are either:

Too fat or too thin

Too old or too young

Hair too long or not long enough

Too curly or too straight

Big titted or too tiny titted

Too big-butted or no butt at all

Too prudish or too trashy

Too slutty or not too cold

Too stupid or too intelligent

Too trendy or too cheap

Too outspoken or too quiet

Too independent or too needy

Too feminist or a too old-school

Once men learn how to manage these, everything should be fine.

Hang the f*ck on!

They want men to be insecure like this? What the f*ck for? Is this really the best way to be… the world we want for children?

Male life isn’t that complicated… or it shouldn’t be.

man-okA boy gets out of his bed in the morning and his anxieties turn to the things that really matter, like emptying his bladder. It then moves to filling his stomach. It may seem a selfish way of approaching life, too simple to be fair or intelligent but it works. It’s far better than looking in the mirror and wondering what other people may or may not think of his bad hair, bad skin, fatness… all f*cking day long!

Yep, that’s male life.

I get that women are insecure. It seems to come with the territory. They have a need to be wanted and heard. The funny thing is all humans are like that, even the male ones! It’s just the way the women are going about fixing it is devouring the male identity entirely. Women want men to understand them better because THEY want to understand themselves better. So men are caught up, taught to learn women’s anxieties, mimic them, act and behave a way a women would to show they are empathetic enough to be worthy. That’s the woman’s world today and that’s how men need to act in order to get the women they like into the sack.

The sack?

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Yes, it’s another of those simple male things. We take a piss, feed our tum-tums and mate. Call us animals if you like. Cheapen our existence by tossing civilised words at us if you will. Tell us how good and right it is to be on your side of the fence but we don’t care. Your side is not so hot anyway. At least we’re not measuring our lives against everyone else; what we think someone may or may not saying about us when we’re not looking. At least we’re not tossing out a perfectly good handbag and sacrificing the hide of another healthy animal so we’ve got something to wear with our new shoes.

You are nurturers and you are right.

About that… when you come to lactate, you’ll get the perfect chance to prove how much of a nurturer you really are. In the meantime, stop practising breast feeding techniques on humanity vicariously through other devices. Men don’t need to become pseudo-babies for you, neither do other women. When the time comes, that’ll be YOUR time to shine. Until that happens, you’re here with the rest of us. Get on with it or just get lost. Don’t nurture what doesn’t need nurturing.

Feminism was made for the purposes of equality and you are getting that. The workplace, the voting system and all manner of things females didn’t have before it are now in place because of feminism. Feminism wasn’t put there to make you SPECIAL. You AREN’T special because you’re female. You don’t get SPECIAL treatment for being female. You are EQUAL, remember? You get EQUAL treatment. That’s what YOU wanted. Now play nice and stop thinking you’re above it. EQUAL is what it is. If you’re inclined to dumb-down men when you talk about them with the girls, then you dumb-down women at the same time. That’s how equality works. Get it yet?

If you want protection in the dating arena then use YOUR intelligence to do it, not feminism. Don’t expect it to do the job YOU’RE supposed to be doing. Don’t call on feminism because you, well, you just fear men. Own your fears. That’s how men do it. Get over them! Find another word for what ails you. Feminism isn’t your rescuer. Feminism isn’t there sort out your insecurities. It’s there for equality, not naivety or worse, plain arrogance.

If you don’t like the way men go about doing things then don’t socialize with them. Take yourself out of the game. Go away and wear a big button on your front that says ‘Men: Avoid At All Costs’. That’s how a responsible person would do it. An irresponsible one would call upon feminism’s gang to make a fight out of it.

So much for nurturing, eh?

And FF’s sake: STOP DEMANDING MEN to become like you. It’s evil. It’s a false equality anyway. Men can’t become women. All that does is confuse and bring men down to a level they don’t need or are capable of coping with. Why give men that burden anyway? Are they really that bad that you’d want to hurt them this way?

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If you truly want to try on some equality on then try the alternative: Wake in the morning, take a piss, eat something nice and then mate your brains out. Don’t stop by a mirror to see if you’re pretty enough. Don’t consider what everyone else is thinking. Don’t spend a single second trying to organise other people’s lives from the confines of your mind. Just piss, eat and f*ck. I guarantee you life will make sense almost immediately… and you won’t be telling any male how they ought to act afterwards. You’ll see it’s a nicer way to see the world.

Turning into a male empathizer isn’t a crime.  Everyone should try it once!

-A

(Inspired by the novel SEETHINGS)

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Michael Forman’s books on Goodreads ratings: 4 (avg rating 4.50)

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Anne-Marie Slaughter: Why women need a men’s revolution – ABC News (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)

Anne-Marie Slaughter, the best-selling author and former White House advisor, says the gender revolution is stuck at a halfway point because society has not been willing to address the roles of men.

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Professor Slaughter, who famously penned an article under the heading “Why Women Still Can’t Have It All”, told Lateline that women have been liberated from their traditional roles but the same has not been done for men.

“You can’t change the roles of women dramatically and say you can now be like your father and do what men traditionally did and not equally change the role of men, because you get stuck,” she said.

Professor Slaughter was the first woman appointed to the role of director of policy planning at the US State Department, a job that meant she lived in Washington during the week and commuted home to Princeton on weekends.

After several years of trying to balance a demanding job and the needs of her family – particularly a rebellious son – Professor Slaughter quit and returned to a role at Princeton University.

When she penned the “Can’t Have It All” article for The Atlantic in 2012, she was criticised by sections of the feminist movement for betraying the cause.

Professor Slaughter, now the president of the New America foundation, spoke to Lateline about what has changed since her original article was published.

We still treat our sons differently to our daughters

“I looked at my sons and I thought, you know if I’d had daughters, I’d be raising them completely differently than my mother was raised. I’d be raising them to have a career but also to invest time in their families. But my sons were still being raised the way my father was raised.

We still tell our sons, your role in life is to have a career and support a family. We women still expect our sons to be breadwinners even as we ourselves understand that we need to do both.

We have to change the way we treat the men in our life.”

Men need their own revolution

“We’ve liberated women essentially to be men, to do the work that men have traditionally done, and in the process we’ve devalued the work that women traditionally did; the work of care, the work of nurturing. You can’t have a halfway revolution.

You can’t change the roles of women dramatically and say you can now be like your father and do what men traditionally did and not equally change the role of men, because you get stuck.

We now have to focus somewhat paradoxically on men and on valuing that work of care, whether women or men do it.”

We need to support ‘strong, confident men’

“We need to be able to look at a man who has a career, who has a set of goals, but who also says my family is going to come first and see him as a strong confident man who’s willing to break gender stereotypes.

Those men are pioneers, just as much as Germaine Greer or Betty Friedan or Gloria Steinem were pioneers.”

Money matters

“In the United States, childcare for two children costs more than rent in all 50 states. This is where you need public policy solutions as well as workplace solutions. I am among a very narrow band of privileged women who buy our way out of these problems.

If we focus on care, what we’re saying is that the government has to provide an infrastructure of care, just like you’d provide bridges or ports or broadband. That allows all couples or all parents to have access to paid leave and a high quality childcare and increasingly, elder care.

She wanted to retitle the “Can’t Have It All” article

I never meant to tell women that [they still can’t have it all]. I would have loved to have retitled the article because what I thought I was saying was why women still can’t have it all, meaning, here are the changes we have to make so that women can have the same options as men.

I now try and get away from the whole not having it all conversation because it’s not useful, it makes women sound selfish, it just isn’t a good way to go, but to say we still have a lot of changes we need to make until we get to full gender equality, I think that is self evident.

Source: http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-03-04/anne-marie-slaughter-women-and-men-revolution/7221596

Hijacking INCEL and its bullying celebrations.

Involuntary Celibacy: Its acronym has never seen so much use as it does today. Men from all ages are taking to the Internet to voice their frustrations in sex, women, feminism and report on their feelings so we can all see.

It’s nice men are communicating. Social media and Internet sites provide a voice and place where men of all types and ages can speak their thoughts. Men aren’t always known for talking. They prefer action. Unfortunately the chatter they are leaving about the Internet in sites like REDDIT and LOOKISM are all too brief, often peppered in angry overtones. They leave with them a residue of nastiness every time they engage the topic. Their literacy is minimal, assumptions are maximal, sentences reduced to a few speculative words that for them point to the ‘real issues’ but for anyone else they read as code. In many ways, they are doing themselves an injustice by not clearly stating their needs in any of their texts. The word INCEL becomes a tired and well-beaten thing that vapourises into uselessness because it’s overused. Fresh content lacks and ‘the issues’ men want addressed in society are swept under the carpet.

Not all writers commentating on INCEL are like that though. One or two have the ability and skills to string enough words together to create a well-written blog post. One of the first to write about INCEL calls himself M2 (now listed as M3). I discovered his first INCEL post nearly four years ago. That single post was a clear hit! It drew in thousands of ‘likers’ immediately and hundreds of commenters in the months that followed. I believe this was the origin of the term; Involuntary Celibacy. It has grown ever since.

It’s only natural that in this fast-paced life that the two words would become one. Unfortunately, in doing so, the new word excludes uneducated readers, for they first have to know where the word came from before engaging in the content. Not all readers care to repair the hole an author made in their pieces and thus disengage right away.

Another author came forward about a year later and vented his emotions in a post that blew the Internet apart (The original post no longer exists). He recommended that governments around the world should fund a global solution: Paying women to have sex with men. He declared it his right to have sex. If he couldn’t get it on his own, he wanted someone else to do it for him.

Currently, the frustrated younger men taking the ‘net daily are using INCEL as a measurement of un-attractiveness. It’s not unlike females who taunt and bully other females using the words ‘skank’ or ‘slut’. Slut-shaming is a female specialty: Girls who see others who have more sexual attraction by using their good-looks now equals the boys not able to get enough sex with their sexual un-attraction and poor-looks. The insults come thick and fast when a new word is discovered!

In a morbid way, they celebrate their ability to attack others through these forums. It’s pack mentality. Two hundred years ago this aggression would’ve included pitchforks, short lengths of rope and a low hanging branches. Didn’t we use to have a proper word or two for people who didn’t look visually appealing or didn’t fit in?

And what about INCEL? What happens to those struggling with a type of celibacy they truly don’t want to be a part of? Do they first have to participate in an ‘ugly’ discussion simply because a bunch of bullies have hijacked the term and made it their own to use, abuse and misrepresent? There are men who need sex but are suffering because their lives, however they come to be, are sexless ones. They become depressed and angry for it. That’s what I draw from the structured content out there. It’s real and a real growing problem. How it’s overcome is something we should be working on.

INCEL-shaming is only diversionary and wastes time.

-Michael Forman (Author of SEETHINGS)

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Michael Forman’s books on Goodreads ratings: 4 (avg rating 4.50)

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‘Forman’s writing style is artful, with the protagonist Mitchell’s warped thought processes masterfully exposed. The author has a powerful and vivid command of language and his word pictures are stark and disturbingly real.’  – Linda J Bettenay, author of ‘Secrets Mothers Keep’ and ‘Wishes For Starlight’

#Freethenipple Campaign is Completely Sexist

I died twice from attack-nipples. In high school, a friend of mine spent three months in a coma as a result of a wayward nipple and a poorly crocheted 80’s bikini top!

As I get older I tire of humanity’s ridiculousness. When a nipple needs a campaign like #freethenipple to discuss a nipple’s rightful place, I know the world can’t grow up. It’s a nipple people. It can’t kill!

But we need #freethenipple because we see an unjust imbalance going on and want justice, equality. Facebook and other social media have policies in place to protect you and I from seeing nude nipples, not men’s nipples, women’s.

This image recently passed Facebook's rules due to the mastectomy scar the woman wears. Mastectomy scars are allowed.

This image recently passed Facebook’s rules due to the mastectomy scar the woman wears. Mastectomy scars are allowed.

What about what’s right or wrong? What about common sense? Can’t we think for ourselves? Must we always rely on the next guy’s existence to establish our own?The current argument uses men’s nipples to get its point across. Men show them so women should too. Nice. The He’s doing it so why can’t I? style of debate takes us back to many childhood moments. Billy got two cookies and I only got one and my feelings are hurt. That’s not a point, that’s selfish want.

When it comes to nipples, what are we so frightened of, a little autonomous thought on human sexuality?

These are prosthesis

A nipple isn’t anything. By itself, it can’t harm. It has no fingers, no opposing thumbs, a hidden dagger or a vile agenda of some sort. It has no muscles to achieve anything at all. So what’s the real problem here? Why do we have we an issue to fight for?

I like nipples. I don’t hate them. I know my head doesn’t explode when I see them. I’ve seen lots of nipples in my time and the head I have today is the same one I had when I was born. I’ve never needed hospitalisation, first-aid or emergency counselling for something a nipple caused. My experiences with nipples have always been good ones, some were great ones. My memories of nipples make me smile. They put me in a happy place.

Maybe that’s the problem.

Some of us don’t like free happiness.

The issue is sex. Men earn it. They earn sex’s happiness. They don’t get freebies. A freely exposed nipple is a sexual freebie they haven’t earnt.

It has nothing to do with children or rescuing them from the clutches of adult sexuality. Children know nipples better than anyone. They’ve not long left them. They have their own and will grow to manage those nipples as they age. A negative example of nipples only adds unnecessary anxiety to the youth. Using children as an excuse to hide nipples places pain on the next generation. That’s a selfish and nasty thing adults do to!

Women fear the sexual freebie. Men have their sex way too easy. They get off on anything, everything, and leave their emotions behind when they do it. Hiding nipples controls men’s sexual happiness. By regulating nipple exposure, it dispenses happiness at a woman’s pleasure. Loose nipples loses that control. We use the word offensive but it really replaces the word fear. Losing control is fearful. #freethenipple is lathered up in foamy fear and women want nipples covered, controlled.

The excuse used is that nipples are offensive. Nipples aren’t offensive. They save lives. A baby needs its mother’s milk and they get it through nipples. It doesn’t make any sense to take a life-giving part of our body and turn it into a thing of terror. We should lose our fears and embrace #freethenipple.

Join me on my other campaigns when I pretty much say the same things the same way: #freethevagina #freethepenis #freethefear #freetheterror #freethefree #freeme #stoptheworld #shitthingswesaytojustify #kurdaitcha #seethings

-Mx

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‘Forman’s writing style is artful, with the protagonist Mitchell’s warped thought processes masterfully exposed. The author has a powerful and vivid command of language and his word pictures are stark and disturbingly real.’  – Linda J Bettenay, author of ‘Secrets Mothers Keep’ and ‘Wishes For Starlight’